We will be covering such topics as how to separate laundry, how to iron a shirt, and where to find a doctor if you need one. But while he needs to hear this practical graduation advice, there are much more important things I need to say. Things I fear I haven’t said often enough in the past 18 years. Believe in yourself. Don’t let others dictate your goals. Strive to be the best at whatever you’re doing. Follow your heart. Don’t worry so much. Have fun. You can do anything you set your mind to. I am so proud of you. Brush your teeth. Are you listening?
I know, deep down, that after he leaves our house, he will still need my advice. I also know that from then on, I may have to wait until he asks me for it. But this summer, while the sun shines, he is still mine. I can’t waste one minute.